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I would agree that limiting your diet so strictly and then giving yourself an oppurtunity to eat whatever leads to a major binge, wouldn't it make more sense to set a diet based on a healthy calorie count 7 days a week to avoid binging?

Here are some tips to help avoid binging:

Avoid Binge Eating
Povided By Women's Health

When you're dieting, a growling tummy is like a wedding toast: The longer it lasts, the more dangerous it gets. But your hormones, not your gut, are really to blame for most binges. Ghrelin, which makes you hungry, and leptin, your primary appetite suppressor, are eternally battling it out. Preventing these hormones from going haywire is the key to reining in calories without always feeling ravenous. So dig in--we're giving you 44 ways to fill up and conquer the growling beast that is your stomach.

Trade your corkscrew for a bottle opener
Participants in one study ate more food while drinking wine than while drinking beer.

Shape up
Wedge-shaped foods like pizza make it difficult to estimate proper portions. (No wonder the apple pie always goes so fast.)

Pack a packet
Instant oatmeal beats out All Bran and Muesli for fullness factor. We love Quaker's Weight Control Maple and Brown Sugar--it tastes heavenly and has more fiber, protein, and whole grains than the regular variety.

Find a new china pattern
Research shows that blue is a natural appetite suppressant, so using blue plates, napkins, or placemats may make you eat more slowly and realize when you're full.

Dig pop culture
Because it's mostly air, popcorn is twice as filling as a candy bar or peanuts, with fewer calories. We like Pop Secret 100-calorie packs

Be antisocial
On average, people who eat with one other person consume about 35 percent more than when they dine alone; at a table of four, that figure rises to 75 percent more; if you're in a party of eight you'll nearly double your intake.

Ignore diet labels
One study found that after eating full-fat muffins, subjects were less hungry and ate less over the next 24 hours than after eating a fat-free version.

Re-paint your dining room beige
Red, yellow, and orange hues stimulate appetite and make you eat more.

Find berry treasure
Raspberries are one of the most fiber-filled fruits, packing 8 grams into a cupful--a whopping 32 percent of your RDA. Add some to your cereal or yogurt.

Hold your breath
Just smelling a fresh-baked cupcake in the break room can induce the insulin secretion that makes you think you're hungry. Sight activates the appetite snowball too, so avert your eyes.

Make a dinner date
A study found that women eat less than usual on dates (men tend to eat a lot more).

But don't eat by candlelight
Dim light can trigger binge eating.

Better yet, make it a blind date
It's worth a try--dine blindfolded and you'll eat 22 percent less food without missing it. Just watch out for the salad fork.

Down a multivitamin
Research suggests that your body may compensate for a lack of nutrients by increasing your appetite so you'll eat more.

Save your bread
Dodge the white wonder and go for whole wheat--it's 5.5 times more satisfying.

Meet meat
One study found that people ate 441 fewer calories a day when following a 30 percent protein diet versus a 15 percent protein diet.

Make some miso
When your metabolism is dragging and your energy dips, you crave foods and drinks that give you a quick lift. New research reveals that protein-rich miso soup boosts metabolism.

Boost your bean count
The musical fruit's high fiber content causes glucose to be released slowly into the bloodstream, preventing the sudden slumps that cause hunger spikes. Add garbanzos or black beans to soup or salad.

Go cuckoo for cocoa
Participants in one study were significantly more satisfied 30 minutes after they drank low-fat chocolate milk than they were after they drank soda.

Bulk up
Soluble fiber expands in your GI tract to make you feel full, so get your 25-gram RDA. That's a packet of oatmeal, two slices of whole-wheat bread, and 1 cup each of broccoli, edamame, and raw carrots.

Live in your own private Idaho
If you need starches, yams and white potatoes (with skin) are 7 times more filling than a croissant. Sorry, French fries don't count.

Request a doggy bag
Wrap up half your meal to go before you take the first bite and you're likely to eat less. Study participants who were offered a portion and a half of a food consumed 43 percent more of it and ate 25 percent more calories in the meal overall.

Add avocado
Your body burns carbohydrates in an hour or two, so toss a little healthy fat into the mix (avocado in salad, peanut butter on bread) to buy a few hours before the pangs hit.

Choose surf over turf
Fish is more satisfying, per calorie, than lean beef or chicken, according to Dr. Susanna Holt's Satiety Index, a ranking of different foods' ability to satisfy hunger.

Eat like a cow
Graze: Five evenly spaced, 350-calorie mini-meals a day will regulate your appetite and ward off sugar cravings caused by skipping meals.

Have a cocktail with lunch
Fruit cocktail, that is. Mixed fruit can curb a sweet tooth, and it has plenty of fiber, which helps regulate your blood sugar.

Declare yourself perfect
Accept your body and, according to a study at Ohio State University, you're more likely to eat healthily--and not for emotional reasons.

Eject the junk
Science has proven that a food's tasty appearance can trump feelings of fullness. Ask the waiter to remove your plate before you scarf the rest of those fluffy mashed potatoes.

Get hitched
A study found that happy marriages lower the risk of metabolic syndrome, which could lead to overeating. Women in consistently dissatisfying marriages were about 3 times more likely to develop metabolic syndrome. Widows carried nearly 6 times the risk.

Attempt ambidexterity
Switch your fork to your nondominant hand--you'll eat much more slowly. That gives you time to recognize your couldn't-eat-another-bite feeling when it first sets in.

Get nutty
Nosh on pine nuts--they have the most protein of any nut or seed, and the pinolenic acid they contain stimulates two powerful hunger-suppressing hormones.

Turn up the heat
Temperature is a satiety signal, and the cooler a room, the more people tend to eat--which is why restaurants often keep thermostats low.

Ride a roller-coaster
Nausea is responsible for a subsequent loss of appetite (bring your own barf bag).

Count sheep
Sleep-deprivation leads to lower leptin levels and higher ghrelin levels, boosting your appetite. Try to get at least 7 hours tonight.

Go beyond the pale
White pasta and other foods made with refined flour cause blood sugar to drop and leave you hungry again in no time. Choose whole-wheat pasta and you'll be satisfied almost twice as long.

Can the juice
Whole fruit has a higher fiber content and makes you feel fuller than fruit juices, even those with pulp.

Skip soft drinks
High-fructose corn syrup, the main sweetener in soda, doesn't spur insulin production to make the body process calories, nor does it trigger leptin, the hormone that tamps down appetite.

Enjoy your salad days
According to one study, women who ate a 100-calorie salad before dinner consumed 12 percent fewer calories during the meal without trying to diet or limit their intake. The fiber in the greens probably helped.

Bag the dried fruit
Go for 2 cups of grapes over a quarter cup of raisins--both are 100 calories, but the grapes' water content feels more filling.

Listen to Norah Jones
Eating while listening to mellow music slows you down. It takes 20 minutes for your stomach to tell your brain it's full--that's the first seven tracks of Come Away with Me.

Start with soup
Have a cup of soup, such as chicken noodle or vegetable, before your entrée--you'll feel fuller sooner and eat fewer calories overall.

Crunch on raw carrots
Researchers in Ireland noted that carrots are more filling when they're uncooked. Bonus: A 1-cup serving has 3.6 grams of fiber.

Slurp a smoothie
Make it with low-fat yogurt and loads of fruit for a satiety trifecta: protein (to decrease hunger), fiber (to fill you up without extra calories), and calcium (to help burn, not store, fat).

Start a pack-a-day habit
Chewing gum (sugar-free or regular) suppresses your desire for sweets. (If you prefer potato chips, spit out the gum--it may make a salty craving worse.)

Wishing you the very best, you have the strength and ability to beat this. You just have to find the right parameters to do it in!

Cheers-
CK

i get that way around the same time...whether i am lonely, stessed or happy, food makes me feel alive. i guess getting out of the house or finding a different thing to do around that time would help. next time i feel the 1 o clock binge i will go for a walk...wanna join me:)

Hi CK,

Thanks for the great advice! Do you suffer from binge eating yourself? I know the solution must seem simple someone else. But unfortunately it's not that simple for me :-( It's part of the eating disorder I guess. I did one of those online calorie estimates, and it said my calorie range is ~2000 calories/day. For some reason I find it really hard to allow myself to eat that much without feeling extremely guilty. I know it's better to eat that much if it prevents a binge. I know this, and I know the cycle, I'm just finding it hard to find the confidence in myself and my body to get out of the cycle.

Have a great day!

:-)

I'm a stay at home mom and when the kids go to school I have this ' I can do anything I want' attitude and I end up eating. I guess im just trying to do something that is just for me. Must find healthier things to do. Thanks for being my supporter:)

wow, i seem to have the same BED you have. i am the same way, but it is now very out of control after having a baby. i am afraid that i may need more calories but that it will be more than i want and make me gain more weight. ugh. i have no idea where to begin to stop this.....