Depression & BED

Hi, I've been a part of this site for a while, however I've been away from it for quite some time and I have recently started becoming more and more depressed. My binge eating has started to get a real control of me again, I don't want to get out of bed at the weekends I just want to stay in bed and eat all the time. I'm pathetic and useless.

I've started seeing someone though I keep thinking this relationship is not going to work out. I just can't find any route to happiness. I've been to therapy and had one therapist that worked great however cos I had to move away from her for studies, I now have no one.
I'm really falling back into depression and cannot get out. I hate feeling like this. I know I'm causing quite the burden on my sisters who I've recently moved in with. Lord oh lord can't someone help.

Moongal xx

 
By April on Sun, 12-04-11, 15:23

Moon, so glad to hear from you again & wished I had words to help uplift you a bit. Hang in & others will come around as we sure missed you.

All my strengths friend.

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By moongal on Mon, 12-05-11, 06:24

Hey April,
Thank you so much for your reply. I'm so down. I wish I could get out. I was too depressed to go to college today and so have stayed at home, I feel so lazy for doing that. I know I should have gone in and made the effort. Oh Lord I'm sliding into that deep hole of depression.

How have you been keeping?

Moongal x

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By Princess on Tue, 12-06-11, 09:47

Moongal it's so nice to hear from you! I have missed you and you have been in my thoughts! I am so sorry your deppression is getting worse! I am so glad that you reached out for support! I know how you feel i have those days too where I want to stay in bed all day! I really encourage you to start seeing a counselor! You aren't not pathetic or useless, you are so worthy and wonderful person and friend! Are you not having a connestion with that guy anymore?

Please know i am here and I love and care about you a lot!

I am a princess. All girls are. Even if they live in tiny old attics. Even if they dress in rags, even if they aren't rich, or are young or old! They're still princesses. All of us. Didn't anyone tell you that? Didn't anyone? I am telling you that!

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By April on Wed, 12-07-11, 13:42

Moon, please listen to princess & try to push through this a little harder & dont isolate yourself further & be proud of yourself for reaching out here to talk things through more.

The site offers free counseling on certain nights (I dont remember which nights) so do watch for announcements from therapists as this may be useful for you & just what you need to pull you through this rough time frame.

Are you going home for holidays?

Love April (thanks for asking about me as I too still struggle a bit but less now)

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By Overcome89 on Wed, 12-07-11, 19:11

I know I don't know you but I'm new here and trying to get connected with some people. I too am in college and I want you too know that it is not true you are not useless or pathetic...I know it is so easy to believe that when it is all your head keeps telling you and you feel like a burden but I'm guessing that's why this group is here...others who understand who you can let it all out to.. so I'm here..nd I'm praying for you Moon..

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By Cards on Thu, 12-08-11, 23:55

Hi Moongal, I'm new here too, also struggling with binge eating & depression issues. I know the feeling of not wanting to get out of bed - and even though I usually do eventually get up, I can easily go several days without leaving my apartment and seeing/talking to anyone. I don't really have any good advice, but for what it's worth, you're not alone. And you are certainly neither useless nor pathetic. During these periods, I try to remember that there have existed times when I felt good/happy/balanced, and that I can and will feel that way again eventually.

Best,
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